Oct
17
oh! and I also hate dudes who talk all the time about how men should always defer to women’s judgement on anything related to sexism and not exercise any independent thought
except that women often disagree because we are not homogenous
and then it becomes clear that what these dudes mean is almost always “I’ve come up with a political justification for parroting what the girl I have a crush on/am scared of/idolise says”
in effect, making their position that only the women they approve of or need socially are women at all