this seems to lack nuance and is heterosexist. queer dudes do some pretty intense parroting of ladies they love and so do other women. i would…re-check this.
that’s a reasonable point. I was thinking of a few specific situations I’ve seen that were about men’s sexual interest in particular women (inc. a number of situations involving queer men — not to pull a BISEXUAL ERASURE, just to reiterate that queer men are fully capable of having kinda skeevey sexually-motivated behaviour towards women). I didn’t intend “have a crush on” to be read as exhaustive, but simply illustrative — but it does read as if it was intended to be exhaustive. I’ve changed it a little.
you’re like the gender department of their self of which they’re the manager. you could pull some serious body politic analogies on that shit.